Remember these two rules:
- Never personalize rejection.
Understand this, rejection is not always about you or the person you are, it is more about what you are offering and if it is acceptable.
So If you hear a NO, it is not because they don’t like you, but because your skill doesn’t fit the profile. So upgrade them.
And if you get dumped, relax, it’s not because they hate you as a person, but because your personality doesn’t fit their expectations. So be better.
- There is always something new you haven’t seen.
Shit can go from 0 to 100 real quick, and in that moment you may feel this is the end for you. And then there will be this urge for you to pack up everything and quit and say you are am done.
But in that moment when you feel nothing else can make sense and your journey is over, I want you to know that there is something new you haven’t yet seen. A new song, a new movie, a new book, a new recipe. A new love, a new face, a new relationship, a new friend.
I sincerely do believe that even on our worst days, life can spectacularly introduce us to a new discovery. So wait and see